POTENCY

 

"POTENCY»  -  power - the word undeniably has a special sound. Cars - with power. Boats - with power. Airplane - with potency. Men - with potency and last but not least, - women with potency..  and mathematics...

Anyone who now thinks that we are going to do a deep dive among erected penises and horny ladies is quite right to a certain extent, but we shall, as far as possible, - keep it on an academic level since we are moving into an area that is not talked about so much. For some, it results in pure, life-affirming joy and positive everyday life, while for others it is a source of constant frustration.

 

Recognition

Since this blog is meant to reflect my life and lived as the rather ordinary man I am, - and with the bit of life experience I have accumulated over the years, it will necessarily be my life and my observations/experiences that characterize what you read.

And if you should recognize yourself in some of this, it is good, then you know that you are not alone in your way of thinking. Because there are many of us, actually millions, and at the same time it is one of the best-kept secrets since Adam picked apples.

 

The first signs

I can't exactly remember when I noticed the first signs. Because the will has always been present together with the joy, while the flesh, while playing in bed or elsewhere,  gradually began to become a bit rusty. Although there is no direct connection, I think the first signs that nature is eventually taking its toll were the tiny leaks in my panties, especially after going to the toilet. (see previous article from 25 November: - "Problemløser`n").

 

Out of power

As time (and years) went by, the power of the jet when I hit the lance became - gradually weaker until one day I discovered that I was standing over the toilet bowl and my tool was hanging like a leather rag between my legs while I was peeing - straight down!

No jet, it just trickled and flowed, and ever more slowly, - it took all the time in the world to empty the bladder. I write about this in more detail in the article "Problemløser`n", which you can find here.

 

Beautiful

While this was going on I eventually discovered that the potency was not the same. At the same time, I can dispel the myth that older men go after younger women when their potency starts to wane. My wife is about a quarter of a century younger than me, hard-working, speaks five languages, and has a master's degree in economics. In addition, she is beautiful and very attractive.

We have already been married for 14 years, and there was absolutely nothing wrong with the potency when we got married.

 

Performance

It is important to note that "potency" means performance. There has never been something wrong with desire. It was gradually the performance that faltered more and more. A most natural development which for everyone represents a problem, no matter what we claim, and which has been the subject of countless jokes and comedies, - and indeed some dramas too. "I want, I want - but I can't make it happen". Now the world has become increasingly open about this topic. It has become a popular material in newspapers, weekly magazines, radio, and TV. And the world is teeming with people who call themselves sexologists and therapists and there are no limits to how much good and well-intentioned advice they have.

 

Nothing new

But it seems that one has copied the other because there is absolutely nothing new. If it is the man who has potency problems, then he must at a greater extent understand and play on the team with the woman, and if it is the woman who has potency problems, including desire and motivation, then the man must to a greater extent understand and play on the team with the woman. In other words, the man is the one who is put on the wall as. "Old pig" - they call us, - especially those of the female sex who are in possession of Palestinian scarves and flat shoes. However, the truth is as simple and merciless as already described, - we have entered the "hangover age".

 

Robbery

I gradually learned that our intimate relationship and any relationship eventually comes to the point where it takes both art of living and creativity to establish the excitement that nature robs us of. It became particularly challenging when I could no longer get up, and it must be even worse in situations where the exact opposite happens. The man gets a ride as long as it lasts and wants to, while the partner has long since opted out and may carry out the intercourse almost as a "friendly service", "to keep the peace in the house". Forgotten are foreplay, sex toys, and all the wonderful inventions they came up with together. Cheeky and bold, inventive and advanced, - and to the delight of both. "Where have all the flowers gone".

 

Still nothing new

So there we are, - in 2023, - and there is absolutely nothing new under the sun, or ??

As I am neither a doctor, psychologist nor therapist, just an ordinary man, I can only tell you about my own experience, and what we, have done to reach old heights in our sex - and cohabitation.

 

Similarity

And should you find points of similarity with your situation, nothing is better, and if not, use our experience to your heart's content. Feel free to take your partner, be it your wife, fiancée, cohabitant, or girlfriend along for advice. Read about our experiences together, then you have the legitimacy to let things go and create something new and exciting in the relationship.

And finally today - this is not something that is necessarily related to age and state of health, it is a universal problem that affects all people of all ages.

Keep that in mind and don't go around sulking because you think you're so special, because you're not.

We will be in touch ……